Marc Serafino
This is one of the most frequent questions guys have. They think of their ex as the one and they want to get her back… badly. No matter who tries to reason them out of this idea, they simply can’t / don’t want to accept the fact that she’s not the mythical “one” and that they should move on.
Ok you want her back, here are some things to consider…
First of all you should know, this isn’t about her – it’s about you
You must improve yourself. Start learning a new skill, read some book, watch a movie, hang out with friends. The idea is to have a life separate of her. Show her you don’t need her and act accordingly. In other words, you SHOULDN’T call her frequently.
You *must* have a full life without her (or any other women)
If you can’t live like that, start doing so now. There are many things you could be doing, like playing sports, walking around a city, traveling and so on. You should have/create an exciting life she (and any other women) wants to be a part of.
Get in shape
If you’re not going to a gym regularly or not running, now’s the time to start. While exercising, listing to an audio book so you can turn that time into an educational session. Alternatively, listen to some podcasts to get information about the latest things happening in the world. Knowledge is power, remember?
Start seeing other women
This is crucial and it will lift your self-confidence through the roof. Plus it will make her jealous and she’ll want you back in return. And who knows – maybe after a while, you’ll figure that some other woman is the “one.”
Discipline yourself
You can call her if you want, but only after a week or so and from some party or restaurant. You must be able to demonstrate her you’re having a time of your life and she’s not part of it. Discipline yourself to call her after a while, just to check out how’s she doing. Don’t whine over the phone.
Final step – ask her to be your friend
Say something like “I was thinking, you and I are not exactly a match made in heaven, but we could be friends if you want?” This is called role reversal – cause this is something girls usually say (rather than guys). She’ll be thinking what’s this all about…
Now I can’t guarantee all this will work for you, but it’s worth trying. Actually chances are it isn’t – you should just move on, but if you want to try these techniques out – good luck. 😉
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